Use this question bank to prepare for an optional reading or to reflect without booking one. Choose a few questions that matter to you; you do not need to ask all 100. A reader’s response is an interpretation, not a guarantee or professional assessment.
Start with service terms
Clear prices, privacy choices and permission to stop matter before any interpretation. Keep medical, legal, investment and animal-health decisions with appropriately qualified professionals.
How to use the list
Pick one purpose and a small number of questions. Avoid asking a reader to verify another person’s private feelings, diagnose symptoms or promise a date. Record answers separately from details you supplied, and allow yourself to disagree.
Before booking
- What is included in this session?
- What is the total price?
- What billing unit do you use?
- Does the offer require payment details?
- When do charges begin?
- Can the session extend automatically?
- How do I stop the session?
- What are the cancellation terms?
- What is the refund policy?
- Will I receive a receipt?
Privacy and session boundaries
- What information do you require from me?
- Can I decline a personal question?
- Is the session recorded?
- Who can access a recording?
- How long is a recording retained?
- May I take notes?
- Can I decline a topic?
- Can I end early without buying more?
- Do you offer readings about people who have not consented?
- Will you keep sales offers separate from the reading?
My own relationship choices
- What do I want from a relationship?
- Which expectations should I discuss directly?
- Which boundary do I need to communicate?
- What am I assuming about the other person?
- What observable behavior matters to me?
- What would a respectful invitation sound like?
- How can I accept a no?
- What support would help after a breakup?
- What do I want to keep private?
- What choice remains mine regardless of a prediction?
Family and friendships
- What kind of contact feels manageable?
- Which family responsibility can be shared?
- What help could I offer with permission?
- What topic needs a clear boundary?
- What do I appreciate about this friendship?
- Which disagreement can I discuss without blame?
- What would a realistic repair look like?
- When is taking space appropriate?
- What can I choose without involving another person?
- Who could offer a grounded outside perspective?
Work and learning
- Which skills would I like to develop?
- What part of my work matters to me?
- What information do I need before changing jobs?
- Which task needs a clearer priority?
- What support could I ask for at work?
- What small learning experiment could I try?
- What are my practical constraints?
- Which expectation am I placing on myself?
- How would I compare two options?
- What next step is within my control?
Money boundaries—not investment advice
- What discretionary spending limit do I want for this service?
- Which essential expense must remain protected?
- What recent spending should I review myself?
- Which offer term needs clarification?
- Would I make this purchase without an urgent prediction?
- What could I do without paying?
- Which money question belongs with a qualified professional?
- What consequence should I consider before committing?
- How can I decline an upsell?
- What will I do if I reach my spending cap?
Beliefs and reflection
- Which spiritual practice is personally meaningful?
- What part of an interpretation does not fit?
- What ordinary explanation should I consider?
- What value do I want a practice to support?
- Can I use the exercise without accepting a prediction?
- What would help me remain open to correction?
- Which belief is mine rather than an obligation for someone else?
- What would make a practice more manageable?
- How could I explore a question without a paid reading?
- When would I choose to pause?
Everyday needs and qualified support
- What practical help would make today easier?
- What can I remove from an overloaded schedule?
- What concern should I discuss with a clinician rather than a reader?
- Who can help me find appropriate support?
- What would a manageable break look like?
- Which responsibility needs action instead of another interpretation?
- What do I need to communicate about my capacity?
- What familiar activity would I welcome?
- Which health assumption should I avoid making from a card?
- What care plan should remain with my qualified care team?
Remembering people and animals
- What memory would I like to preserve?
- What remembrance activity feels welcome?
- Who could listen without demanding a particular interpretation?
- What am I hoping a session will give me?
- Could I meet that need another way?
- What would I prefer not to discuss?
- How can I honor an animal companion through a genuine memory?
- Which current pet-care question belongs with a veterinarian?
- What support would help if a session is upsetting?
- Can I choose not to seek a message?
After a reading
- What exactly did the reader say?
- Which details did I supply?
- What did I infer afterward?
- Which claim remains unverified?
- What did not fit?
- What action makes sense independently of the reading?
- Do I have genuinely new information?
- Would another session clarify anything verifiable?
- Who can help me examine a concerning claim?
- Do I want to stop buying readings?
Questions to take elsewhere
“Which treatment should I use?”, “Is my pet ill?”, “Should I invest this money?” and “Where is a missing person?” need appropriate expertise or official procedures—not psychic certainty. For relationships, no answer overrides someone else’s consent.
Afterward, choose a practical step
Review the answer alongside what you know independently. Take time before major decisions or another purchase. If you felt pressured by a threat, guarantee or demand for secrecy, save the relevant messages and contact the provider through its official support channels.
Common questions
Are open-ended questions proof of a better reading?
No. They may organize a conversation, but they do not verify the reader’s claims.
Should I share every detail?
No. Keep sensitive information private and decline questions you do not want to answer.
Can I use these without a psychic?
Yes. Most reflection prompts work in a journal or a conversation with someone you trust.
*laughs* So I guess my question should be: ‘Why do I keep giving my money to someone who claims to talk to the dead?’
I appreciate the structure of this article. The different categories of questions really help in organizing thoughts before a reading.
*shrugs* If preparing helps people feel better about their readings, who am I to judge? Everyone has their own coping mechanisms.
(eyeroll) Honestly, if you have to write down questions for a psychic, are they even psychic?
Really? A psychic reading? Sounds like a waste of time and money to me.
I get your point, Sam, but some people find value in it. It’s all about personal belief!
Exactly! It’s just entertainment disguised as guidance.
“Preparing for a reading is crucial.” Yes, but isn’t that common sense? Why not just be direct with your life issues instead of seeking vague answers from someone else?
This article is a fantastic resource! I’ve always felt unprepared for psychic readings, but these tips will definitely help me focus.