When you want to manifest anything in your life, you need to make sure that you are lining up what you want with your subconscious mind. Once you are true to yourself and you set goals, you can find that you can get what you want.
The Law of Attraction is one thing that you can learn to manifest with. Even if you are looking for love, you can use the Law of Attraction and it can work by helping you to see that you have worth and that you are important. When you don’t feel like you are worth it, you will never be able to attract the love that you want.
If you feel that you are not worthy or allowed to have love in your life, it can cause you to do things that aren’t healthy for you such as:
- Having addictive behaviors.
- Picking up bad habits.
- Having beliefs that are not strong.
Some of these things can come to you when you are a child because of how you were raised. When you want to manifest things in your life, you have to find ways to get rid of these beliefs and behaviors and you have to find out who you really are. You can find someone that you can connect to and that you will see that you deserve that love and that is how manifestation happens for you.
Manifesting Love
As soon as you get the point about manifesting you will see that there are energies that can help to draw real love to you. There are different things that you need to do to make sure that you are not blocked in your energy because this can cause you to miss out on your manifestations. Here are some things you need to look out for:
Trauma Bonding
People are often attracted to people based on different things, even down to things that they experienced as a child. Most people will look for someone that will be like their caretakers or some relationship that they saw on television.
Trauma bonding is when you are attracted to someone because of a trauma that you went through as a child, or an adult and you think that if you find someone that you can bond with that you will be fixed, and the trauma will go away. The problem is that this will not make your trauma go away and it will not fix you. All that will end up happening is that you will have a pattern of toxic relationships and you will have to learn how to redo your thinking and rebuild your life and your worth.
Do you ever wonder why you are drawn to people that are unavailable to you? These people probably remind you of someone from your past such as an old partner or a parent. Do you feel that you are extremely attached to these people, and you aren’t sure why? This can happen with different attachment styles and because of trauma bonding. Once you get rid of this belief and mindset, you can find love.
One of the first things you need to do to get rid of trauma bonding is to make sure that you change your mind. You have to look deep and find your inner child and get rid of the triggers that have caused you to feel attracted to trauma around you. You need to look at any trauma bonds that you are attracted to and change your mindset to not try to get with partners like this.
Manifesting Love Fast
You need to make a space where you are healthy enough to have a partner come to you. Do you know what is blocking you from your partner showing up? Look at the energies that you have that you have not cleared out of your life yet. Do you have energy in your heart that is reserved for your ex that you never gotten over? Are you wanting to be with someone that doesn’t return the feelings or are you letting people sleep with you and take advantage of you so that you can feel love? Remember you can even have blockages based on monetary things and this can cause you to miss out on relationships because you might even feel taken advantage of by other people.
You have to start making boundaries and clear out any negative energy that is holding you back. You have to be patient with yourself, and you need to make sure that you are communicating with others and that you are telling the universe that you know your worth and that you deserve love.
No Sex for Six Weeks
You need to make sure that you are not having sex for at least six weeks. When you have sex with someone it causes your brain energy to change, and this means that when you are trying to find someone it causes your mind to send out red flags and it causes trauma bonding to happen.
When you are looking for someone that will be a committed partner, you will not want to just have someone that wants to sleep with you but someone that is serious. If you choose to not have sex with someone for six weeks, then if they are not committed to you then they will not wait for you. Make sure that you make boundaries that will show what you are worth, and you will see after six weeks that you can find love again.