How to Know if You Have Met Your Soulmate


Do you ever wonder if you are with your soulmate or if you are just in another relationship? There are signs and coincidences that you might see when you are with your soulmate such as you are finishing each other’s sentences when you talk, the shared beliefs that you have with this person and having strong energy when you are with them.

A soulmate is something that everyone has a chance of having but what if you don’t find your soulmate? What if you have been with your soulmate but the relationship didn’t last like you thought it would?

There is no real answer to why some find their perfect soulmate and why others don’t. Most people have been in some kind of relationship or have been married. Many might still be in the first relationship that they had with someone, but others have been through many different kinds of relationships.

There are people that have had many failed relationships and have definitely not met their soulmate. Is having a soulmate a coincidence or is it something you can find when you meet someone? How do you ever really know if you have met your soulmate or not?

Soulmate Connections

When a soulmate meets you for the first time there should always be a strong connection. One of you might make the relationship happen but the energy should be felt by both of you.

Maybe your soulmate comes up to speak to you, but you automatically feel drawn to them, and you feel like you could talk for hours. Eventually this kind of relationship will probably lead to something more.

When you find your soulmate, it is like fire in the friendship. It is very strong, but it is something that you want really badly. A soulmate relationship is more than just a regular relationship and is not just having mutual interests. This is something that will grow and will put you through different trials.

People are never going to be perfect and therefore relationships are not going to be perfect. Relationships will have trials and if you can go through them, chances are that the relationship will last. A good relationship is not something someone is obsessed with but something that you work through, and you find a way to stay together.


Some soulmates do have coincidences such as the exact or opposite birthdays. But this is not necessary for you to meet your soulmate.

Look at your astrological chart and see if you play a similar role together. Some skeptics of astrology believe that the position of how the stars, moon and sun lay can play a role in you meeting your soulmate.

People will gravitate towards someone that they want to be with and there are signs that you can know if someone is compatible with you or not.

Meeting Your Soulmate

When you meet your soulmate for the first time there should be strong energy. It should be something that draws you to that person and both of you should find the connection strong.

You will probably be physically attracted to this person at first but as you get to know them you will see that you have more than just an attraction together. Chances are that you will see them as a new thing, and you will see their characteristics as drawing. You might not even feel love at first, but you will feel different with this person.

You will feel pulled to them and it will be hard to explain why. You will feel that you have a deep connection, and it will be more than just interests and looks.

A soulmate will be a person that you will share your deepness with, and you will not be able to explain why they draw you to them.

Maybe you have met your soulmate and you aren’t sure why the relationship seems so shaky. Sometimes this is how it is.

Universal Souls

The universe will draw your soulmate to you. The universe is made of energy, and it will attract people to you or make you not want to be around someone. Soulmates attract to each other and if you are attracted to someone’s energy, this can be a soulmate.

Zodiac Signs of Compatibility

Here are some of the signs that are often most compatible:

  • Aries: Leo, Aquarius, Gemini, and Sagittarius.
  • Taurus: Cancer, Virgo, Pisces, Capricorn, and Scorpio.
  • Gemini: Leo, Aries, Aquarius, Libra, and Sagittarius.
  • Cancer: Taurus, Virgo, Pisces, Scorpio.
  • Leo: Libra, Aries, Sagittarius, Gemini.
  • Virgo: Capricorn, Scorpio, Taurus, and Cancer.
  • Libra: Aquarius, Scorpio, Taurus, and Sagittarius.
  • Scorpio: Virgo, Pisces, Cancer and Capricorn.
  • Sagittarius: Aquarius, Leo, Libra, and Aries.
  • Capricorn: Taurus, Scorpio, Virgo and Pisces.
  • Aquarius: Aries, Libra, Sagittarius, and Gemini.
  • Pisces: Scorpio, Taurus, Capricorn, and Cancer.

There is more than just the signs when it comes to astrology, and it can have to do with the birth of each person as well. The zodiac is based on the moon and stars when the birth happens.

The zodiac starts with the Aries because it is the oldest and is used on January 1.  Your soulmate might not be the sign that you are compatible with, but this has to do with other things besides just astrology.

Twin Flames

Twin flames are the other half of your soul. They are someone that will mirror you. They bring out the best in you and help you to get over yourself.

This is a person that is a perfect match that the universe sends you. They are more than just a soulmate and they are a mirror of you. Some of their traits will be:

  • Intensity
  • Passion
  • They are familiar to you.

A soulmate will complete you, but a twin flame is someone that will never leave you. They will come because of your passion, and they will be new people and places that you have wanted to know in your life. These are relationships that often happen fast.

These relationships will be on and off again though and they will come with pain. Most of the twin flames will happen as an affair because they are often married when you meet them.
When this happens, the love is there but it will be strong and short lived. It will cause you to feel cheated on and lost and confused.

Twin flame relationships are very intense, and they often bring out anxiety and insecurities in your life. If you are with someone that you think is a soulmate, but the relationship is more intense than ever, it could be your twin flame.

Soulmates and Togetherness

Soulmates are meant to be together but there are things that might have caused the relationship to not happen such as childhood trauma or moving.

You might feel a deep connection tin this person and maybe they are your soulmate or your twin flame. They are drawn to you by energy and chemistry, but you might have had bad things happen to you that caused the relationship to fail.

Emotions in a soulmate relationship will be anger and frustration at times but there will also be hate and love. When you meet your soulmate, it can be damaging to your life. You have to know that they are your soulmate before things are too late.

Making Your Soulmates Relationship Strong

Some of the best ways to protect your soulmate relationship include:

  • Don’t put hard expectations on each other.
  • Appreciate who your soulmate is and don’t try to change them.
  • Listen without just hearing.
  • Always give them the benefit and don’t judge them.
  • Be honest at all times.
  • When you make a mistake admit it.
  • Be a team and always compromise if you need to.
  • Focus on being the best person you can be.

When you make a mistake, own up to it. Do not avoid owning your mistakes if you want your relationship to last. A soulmate relationship will be full of love and nurturing and if you make a mistake then your partner should love you and forgive you and you should do the same.

Tell your soulmate each week how much you love them.  Do what you can to make your soulmate relationship strong.

Signs of a Soulmate Coincidence

Here are some signs that you have a soulmate:

Thinking the Same Things

You can often finish your soulmates sentence and you will think about the same thing at the same time. This is because your energies will match up and these are part of the soulmate coincidences that you will have.

Can’t Make it Without Each Other

No matter what happens in your life, you need to be together. You won’t let anything tear you apart.

They Make You a Better Person

Your soulmate is there to make you a better person. If you are with someone that inspires you to be better and motivates you to reach your goals, then you probably have your soulmate.

Agree on Stuff that Matters

You and your soulmate should agree on things that matter in life. You should agree on things such as values, morals and how you raise your family.

When you are trying to find someone that you share this with, you will see that you are passionate and loving together and that is what makes the relationship strong.


Your relationship will experience a lot of intensity. They will be someone that inspires you and helps you without drama or fighting. You will have little drama, but the relationship will be intense.

Calling Each Other Simultaneously

You will call each other at the same time or text each other at the same time and this will happen often.

They Won’t Hurt You

This will be a person that will not hurt you. You will become the best you can be, and you will be so close to your soulmate that they cannot hurt you.

If you find a partner that will not hurt, you then it is probably your soulmate.

Romance will Be Strong

You will meet someone that you want to be with, and they will make time with you. You will feel wanted and needed.

Do Anything

You will be with someone that you will do anything for. You will help them, stop what you are doing to do what they need, and you will make them a priority and they will do the same.

You Want to Be Together

Even when you need to spend time apart, you will want to be with this person. You will want to spend all of your time with them, and you will miss them when you aren’t together. You will do things together and you will be excited to spend your time with them.

You Are Honest and Protective

Your soulmate will be there to have your back when things are hard. They will support you and they will back you up no matter what.

The purpose of this relationship is to help you to grow and to be honest with each other and you will have that.

Are They Your Soulmate?

You will know the signs when you meet your soulmate, and you will see different coincidences that happen along the way.

Look at your relationship and see if you feel that you have met your soulmate. As the years go by, you may feel that you could have given up on each other, but you stuck through it.

The relationship will never be perfect, but you will have each other. You will see the signs, but you won’t have to look for them because you are in the right relationship.

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